ATLANTA — Michael’s mother walked past the bathroom in their Duluth, Georgia, home where she had seen her son crying months earlier. The teen was now looking in the same mirror, but this time he was grinning.
“I was like, ‘What are you doing?’ ” she recalled of that moment about a year ago.
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